Rumba.
“It was never about the act. It was all about the chase. An eternal chase of the eyes.”- Manoj Pun Tilija.
Morgan: What about Rumba?
Manoj: I love Rumba. It is an act of pure seduction. When the man opens up and boldly claims his woman. He is ready to seduce and she is ready to be seduced. An act of pure seduction. The chase begins.
There is a thrill in it. A sensation of uncertainity. The knowing of a possibilty. The fear. He can do anything he wants to her. She is already enchanted by this magic.
Manoj: Have you ever wondered why the male species in the jungle have an extra feature of attraction?
Morgan: No. Why is that?
Manoj: Well isn’t it obvious? It's about sex, it's about procreation. Female species have always been the sexual selector. Males attract, females select. Rumba is this dance of seduction. Puffed chest, slow and seductive movements. Feeling every sensation, emotion, and still moving with the partner. This is Rumba.
Morgan: Oh is it the same for us humans when it comes to attraction?
Manoj: What makes you think we are any different from other animals? The act is still the same. The man has to attract the woman to the world he has created for her. A woman is always the selector. But I have seen it change.
Morgan: How has it changed?
Manoj: The temperature has switched.
Morgan: What do you mean by temperature?
Manoj: The temperament of male and female. Men have become soft and cold. Women have become hard and warm. I know why it is happening. And it is becoming rare to find an ideal man and an ideal woman.
Morgan: What do you mean my ideal man and an ideal woman?
Manoj: Listen morgan, A beautiful man without his strength is nothing. A strong woman without her beauty is nothing. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. That is attraction. That is the basis of seduction.
Morgan: Do you consider yourself an ideal man?
Manoj: Hahaha…. Yes.
Morgan: Am I an Ideal woman?
Manoj: Likely.
Morgan: Hahaha… What do you mean by likely?
Manoj: It is not about being an ideal man or an ideal woman. Do you know yourself well enough? Do you have what it takes to fill the role?
Morgan: What kind of role?
Manoj: The man leads, and The woman follows. I know you will interpret the following as something demeaning. That's ok. I get that a lot.
Morgan: So what does the following mean?
Manoj: It is about being receptive. It is about becoming sensitive to the world around her and her dwelling emotion within. A woman is built to receive love from a man in every way. Physically, mentally and spiritually. She is built to receive love. But that has become rarer.
Morgan: And what about the man?
Manoj: Isn’t it obvious Morgan? He is made to give. To penetrate this world, his woman with his energy and bear the fruit. This is why I recommend men to find and follow their purpose in life. The woman comes secondary, once you have mastered yourself.
A woman is not the focus. She is a complement to the life the man has built.
Wouldn’t you want a man who is strong and competent, Morgan?
Morgan: Oh yes, very much.
Manoj: This is it for now Morgan, I have to leave. We will continue this another time.
Morgan: Ok. Thank you for your time, Manoj. I appreciate it.
Manoj: The pleasure was all mine.
