The eternal chase.
“No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable”- Socrates.
Anonymous stories based on true events.
After 6 months of passionate lovemaking, Person A married Person B. Person A and Person B just finished college and now they were ready to move on to being adults. They bought a house with a 20% down payment and the money that would go for rent would now be saved as equity in the house. They lived happily “together”, for one more year.
Person A and Person B witness each other every day, they poke at each other’s unusual behavior and wanted to change each other. The comments turned into curses. The spell of love dissolved. The relationship ended.
Why didn’t it work out?
I met an old couple in the dance studio, we had a group class together. Everyone was having fun. The scene was lively. The couple enjoyed dancing together. I sat down with Mrs. Smith.
Me: Well that was fun.
Mrs. Smith: Yes, it was. And you know…….
Me: Interesting, So it has been 50 years huh? Wow, That's amazing. How did it work out? What’s the secret?
Mrs. Smith: I do not think there is a secret. We had our ups and downs. I think it just work out well for us, I guess.
(Mrs. Smith looking towards her husband.)
Mrs. Smith: Oh you know what, I know the secret.
Me: Well, What is it then?
Mrs. Smith: He still teases me.
I do not have the answer to a successful relationship. I myself have failed in many. I am not promising any relationship hacks that can suddenly make your woman love you again.
But from my understanding, a man first has to build his frame. His physical appearance, financial structure, and an unhealthy passion for his mission in life. And also “The Game”.
Now the man is not doing this to manipulate young girls and making them fall in love with him. Remember what I said about frames?
She has to enter your reality of life.
Curse you if you try to change her. You will rob her of her most beautiful aspect, being a woman.
You test the woman when you take her on dates. You fine and dine Now, you observe how she treats people around her. You introduce her to your family and observe. Men must be selective about the woman he chooses to commit. It is because behind every succesful man there is a woman who supports him.
Therefore it is imperetive to find the woman who is willing to enter your frame of reality.
This is why she will abandon her family, take your last name, and is willing to offer you a hot meal when you return home. This is why she will listen, agree, and even mimic most of your belief system. This is why what you like becomes her likes and your hobby becomes her hobby. Because she is into your frame. She is in your reality.
Once a man has a taste of a geniune burning desire from a woman, he will not settle for anything less. The man will not keep up with the shittest woman employed. He will probably slap her playfull and defuse the tension. He will create thrill, drama, and attention that she so desires but will never state them.
The beginning of the relationship set the tone for the later part of the relationship. Never start with friendship. You are not baiting her with small favors.
Make your intentions clear from the beginning.
Never be a friend. Be a lover.
Communication is not the most important aspect to make a successful relationship. It is a genuine unnegotiated desire.
